RANDOM STUFF: BEING A GIRL/SCHOOL AND FRIENDSHIPS.

Hi guys it's zavien! This might be short but today you guys will be reading about being a girl and stuff about school and friendships. It's not going to be a bunch of fun facts but it's going to be things that I'm thinking. Lets start at being a girl...I think being a girl is AWESOME!. Some people think (only some people) that girls are just fancy and care about what they wear and if a boy likes them, I mean some girls are like that and some aren't. Well, I know that I'm not like that. Some girls just want to have FREEDOM and be themselves.

Girls can start off like that and not care about what they wear and all the other stuff, but unfortunately other girls can change someone, and make them feel like being themselves and not caring about what they wear is wrong. They can (but do not have permission) make that girl feel like she has to care about what she wears and all the other stuff. What I think is that the other girl feels bad about herself and making other girls feel bad about themselves makes her feel good. That's just being mean. To be honest with you, I've had that happen to me.

This is me wearing what I want and having FUN!! Also building something, (just saying..I do not wear glasses those are fake), and you should do the same thing. I mean don't go out and buy the same clothes as me but wear what you want. You can still dress up but do not dress up to impress someone else especially a boy.

If someone (especially a boy) does not like you for who you are, do not change your self for someone else to like you. This kinda ties in with school and friendships so let's start to talk about that...Girls at school can be 4 things...

1. your friend...
2. not your friend..
3. a bully...
4. kind

Girls at school can also make you feel like you're lost in the dark...alone...She can make you feel like you don't belong..Like something is wrong with you...I've had this happen to me. If you have had that happen to you or if you have a friend that makes you feel like that and you're too kind to admit it..You know what..you have to tell that friend. (If that person is being mean to you she should not be your friend.) Tell her that she's making you feel that way.. in a nice way though.. And maybe do not be that girl's friend anymore. (oh..and by the way all the stuff I'm talking about has happened to me so it feels SO GOOD to get it off my chest!) If that does not work tell a teacher, otherwise this will turn into a problem. P.S if you feel this way with the alone stuff just to let you know that your not alone, I've (like I said before) had all this happen to me and probably many other girls....Anyway, this picture is of me and my sister "Shimen" and she (and my other sisters Alaia and Thana!!) helps me get through these types of problems...

Boys (just to let you know) just want to be muddy dirty, have fun and to be dudes...also boys actually don't notice what you wear..they just want to be friends they also don't care about what you wear so don't bother to impress them. A boy (when you're in high school or in a high grade) will like you for you. I actually learned this the hard way because I liked this boy and so did my friend and we kept asking him if he likes us. We asked him too many times, and he ended up not liking, me then I learned that boys don't care...

I hope you guys enjoyed reading and learning about being a girl and a little bit about girls at school..as always LIVE,LOVE LEARN,LIFE!!
*bye!!!!!